reloads are putting me off this game

[fluidwill]

Nemesis and I had a problem with this, turns out it was my laptop power settings, as the battery on my laptop deteriorated i no longer had enough power to hibernate before shutdown. this led to multiple reload messages in my turns for Nem. It was our first game and his understanding nature and trust will long live with me as examples of true gamesmanship. Horribly embarrassing as a player I admit but luckily Nem gave me the benfit of the doubt. You obviously have to make your own decision but as someone on the other side of the hill as far as reload messages are concerned the only thing i can say is that cheating is not always the trigger.