Noob looking for a game & advice

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Well this is rather a shabby start. Bullets for brevity:

* I genuinely apologise for subjecting the entire forum to that post and for violating club rules.
* the post was not intended to identify the other player, which on reflection is ridiculous owing to the fact that his identity can be derived from the ladder. It was posted in anger without due consideration of the fact that the background and context would be unknown to the audience, as it should not be, and was silly.
* my focus in future will be on trying to remain the bigger man, regardless of situation. Indeed, I have prepared some ground rules that I will expect any future opponent to honour, based on this experience.
* To my former opponent - it appears I have conceded the moral high ground without assault. I should not have made our dispute public, and I apologise for any humiliation you have felt as a result. I will not instigate, nor do I expect, further email correspondence about this.

So there we are - the paternal yet constructive feedback from other members was greatly appreciated thanks.

Back to having my ass-handed to me by the Wermacht.