Searching for a place to settle

[Tlussa]

Hey there, newcomer reporting in.

Have been playing wargames for several years occasionally. WITE, Combat Mission, Dominions, Ageod's games, mostly. After learning recently about TacOps 4 and astonishing features it offers (~15 players in MP simultaneously, very decent overall model) and failing to find any live communities playing it, I started to think about joining some steady group of wargame lovers I can rely upon when in need of human opponents in a wide variety of PC wargames out there. Which won't just dissapear in case game will become obsolete, for one (like it happened to official TacOps 4 forums).

The bigger the community, the better. That means more variety, more possibility to participate in some kind of real hardcore military cosplay, like perhaps playing said TacOps 4 MP with a dozen players in a semi-realistic military hierarchy. Or something :) (Sorry, have played too much of Arma it seems).

Is it the right place for someone like this? May be somebody could point me to another places like this, or the ones that better suite my expectations?